never met

The most influential people in my life were probably those I never met, those who made everything possible in my life but they themselves never would have known about me. I might not know  who they are or were or simply they might be my parents which I’ve known since birth. One of these people might be one of the many leaders there have ever been. Maybe an English King or Queen or a Prime Minister of some kind that had made a decision long time ago that might have changed the life of my ancestors or parents. A decision that might have been made on a massive scale and therefore no-one would ever be aware that that decision would have ever affected my life. One of those people might have been an influential person in his/her time too. My life could have been affected by a pacifist like Martin Luther Jr. or Mahatma Gandhi or possibly even by infamous dictators like Joseph Stalin or Adolph Hitler.

On the other hand my life could have been altered even because of the decision of an anonymous beggar or an Important landlord. A decision that might have brought qualities and certain skills in my family that have been kept through various generations. Maybe they learnt how to be humble and the importance of helping friends. These things that have affected my life are gifts for which I couldn’t be more grateful and to which I’m sorry that I will never to be able to thank them for. I could thank my kin but that wouldn’t actually fulfill the wish to thank all those that may have affected my life even without knowing it.

Finally I would say that every single decision of my ancestors and every single possible event had and has changed my life. Those decisions might not have directly affected me but they affected them and therefore converged towards me. I therefore must admit that the people that really affected my life right at the very roots of my own existence are those people that I have never met.  

solve everyday problems

I have been thinking about stress these last day and I think that I have found a solution. This is a solution have been using for a couple of years and I have told this to my friends and it seems that this solution works. Read the whole text before you start.
First you have to find the cause of the problem. It might be a big serious problem or a small ridiculous one. Find it. After you have found it and you are 100% sure of it being the cause.
Lie down somewhere comfortable, close your eyes and relax your whole body. Now imagine the problem. Imagine it as if you were looking from third person view. At this point imagine the whole scene getting dark almost unrecognisable till it becomes total darkness. After this think about one of your happiest moments of your life and stick to it. If in case you fall asleep that's not a problem because the important is to remember to darken the bad thought if it pops up in a dream.

Of course this is only a temporary remedy. The problem will eventually reappear in your mind, usually it reappears 1 or 2 months after this procedure. Till this happens the problem will always be  locked in a safe somewhere in your mind. It won't reappear before the 1st month unless you are looking for it. REMEMBER THE PROBLEM IS IN A SAFE BUT YOU HAVE THE KEY.
I hope this will help you as it does to me. Tell me if it worked.

help people

Help people by sharing their burden. This will be difficult for you but you will be able to help your friends. For sharing the burden of others is a proof of compassion and you caring about your friends. Help them if you can. Don’t share your burden unless you are asked to do so, because by doing so people might think you are doing it to be at the center of attention.

freedom & order

Some people think that freedom and order are possible things that can coexist with each other. They are wrong though. Every time we give someone more freedom the more this person will bring chaos to his life. Let me give you an example: If we abolish all the laws in existence and give every citizen a gun then these would be the consequences. A person that knows that he/she's an heir of an uncle will be able to get rid of that uncle. If that happens then there will be no law that has the ability of punishing the heir for his/her crime. In this case as you all know the chance of there being at least one greedy person in every family, the population of the earth would be decimated in an instant. To have more order people need laws but that means having to give up some of their freedom. that show that freedom and order cannot coexist.  

one day

One day, we might forget the people that once came to our lives. But I know that when that day comes, I won't forget you. Cause you didn't just come into my life, you became a part of it.

what I think and see

When people laugh and ask me what I see in you. I laugh and tell them:" I see everything you don't" 

dreams

Every dream can be accomplished but it won’t it by itself. It is you that has to have the courage to to do what you want.  If you don't you will never reach that what you want.
Thomas Alva Edison described this very well with this quote: "  Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up."